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Are Leaders Born or Made?
    1/3/14
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Coachable
Positive Self-Image
Take Action
Highs & Lows
Have Fun
Something We All Have in Common
Webinar: CARE Leadership
CAO Tip of the Day
Quotes
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It is an ageless debate, as to whether great leaders are born or made. I discovered the polarizing intensity of this during an association meeting many years ago where I was sitting on the education committee. The topic of leadership training was on the agenda and my opinion was that providing as much of this type of training as possible to the members can go a long way in making more great leaders for the future. Immediately I realized my opinion did not align with the individual sitting right beside me as he slapped the table and with all of the conviction of an evangelist trying to convert a sinner he proclaimed, "You are wrong, Paluch, absolutely wrong. There are people who are born to lead and those who are not. And for those who are not, all of the training in the world will not make a difference." We left this meeting with no less distance between these opposite opinions than when we walked in. I suppose that is what makes it an "ageless debate."

 

One thing that is not debatable is that leaders do have some characteristics that others can only aspire to have.

(By the way, after you finish reading through the newsletter, sign up for the webinar with Peter van Stralen. I have known Peter for several years, and his leadership skills and those of his team have quickly built a great company across Canada and the U.S. He is a perfect follow up to this newsletter.)
Coachable

 

"What will I need to do in order to benefit the most from the work you are going to do for us?" I looked at the owner of a company that had been struggling along for almost 20 years, and said, "Stay Coachable." He did, and today, many years later, the next generation has moved into leading the company through his great example. I didn't realize it at the time, but through observing other great leaders like this one, I have found that the greatest of leaders, whether a business owner, new parent, or a crew leader, have an almost insatiable desire to get better. They know that improving in whatever they are doing is a never-ending process and set out to find ways to do just that.

 

It seems that those leaders who excelled in sports or other endeavors in their youth have mastered the skill to respond favorably to advice and guidance in their businesses. The leader in a major medical center who played volleyball when she was a student in college, the business owner who excelled at baseball, the salesperson who runs marathons, the Eagle Scout who had built and sold several companies, and the landscape designer who was an accomplished pianist. All of them were always attentive and willing to be coached in business and had the tenacity to keep working at it until they perfected the skills they needed, much like they would have on a practice field or sitting at a piano.

Positive Self-Image

There are those leaders that you know have arrived as soon as they walk into a room. They are fast paced, possibly a little boisterous and always seem to move into the center of attention. Then there are those who are quiet, introspective, and more comfortable, preferring to coach and encourage from the sideline rather than be the star out on the field. These are two extremes both potentially representing great leaders, and yet they do have something in common: they have presence brought about by a positive self-image. Nathaniel Branden, a writer and lecturer on self-esteem, defines self-esteem as . . .   

 

"the disposition to experience oneself as being competent to cope with the basic challenges of life and of being worthy of happiness. It is confidence in our ability to learn, make appropriate choices and decisions, and respond effectively to change. It is also the experience that success, achievement, fulfillment - happiness - are right and natural for us."


Perhaps a more concise definition is simply someone who is comfortable in their own skin. This comfort, being competent to cope and being worthy of happiness, produces that positive self-image that essentially commands respect and creates confidence in others to follow a great leader.   

Take Action 

I have scratched my head a few times watching a leader shoot first and aim later. They seem to be willing to risk doing the wrong thing over doing nothing at all. Not long ago an owner, leadership team, sales team and I were in a conference room discussing a great opportunity that the sales team was planning to pursue. As we were discussing an appropriate game plan, out of the corner of my eye I noticed the owner reach for the phone, ask the group for the phone number, and dialed. One minute later he had a meeting set with the prospect, hung up the phone and said, "Done, what's next?" I often think of that example when I need to move on a project, complete a task, or do something that would be easy to procrastinate on. Great leaders make the best use of their time knowing they can't do everything but they can do something, and if that something allows them to move to the next opportunity or get closer to a win, then just doing it is always the best option. "Done! What's next?" is an appropriate battle cry of great leaders. 
Highs & Lows 

I had heard Lou Holtz in a talk he was giving say, "I've been on the top and I have been on the bottom and I know I will be in both places again." I admire those leaders who realize there will be good times and there will be bad, and their response to each can determine if they will be around for the next cycle. We had an event at Gibbs Gardens this past year. It is a beautiful 300-acre public garden north of Atlanta, and Jim Gibbs, the owner and designer, was answering questions from other leaders in attendance. I have paraphrased a few of his answers to their questions.

Jim Gibbs, Creator of Gibbs Gardens

Were your family and employees supportive of your decision to build these gardens? 

 

"Nope. They thought I was crazy, but I just kept building."

 

How did you handle the tough time in businesses through the years?

 

"There were days that I told myself if I can just make it until lunch time . . . and then see how things are going after that."

 

Where did you begin when you first decided to build the gardens?

 

"Out by the road. I had to get back here somehow."

 

His answers were not philosophical or even inspiring but they were filled with the wisdom of somebody who knew you just keep going, through the days when we feel alone, burdened, or overwhelmed yet moving forward even in the most incremental steps will eventually take us to the other side of the struggle to the reward where our vision or goal is patiently waiting. Great leaders use these tough times as reasons to keep moving forward, not as excuses to quit.

Have Fun 

Brad Johnson, President, LawnAmerica

There are certainly many more characteristics that could be discussed, but I thought I would end on a very important one to consider. It may, in fact, be the most important one: great leaders are able to have fun. Browse this partial list of thing I have observed great leaders doing over the years. Being a target for a pie throwing contest; swim in a swamp because the team hit a goal; sit in a dunking booth; walk the Appalachian Trail; play a tree swaying magnificently in the wind during a role-play; challenge their team to a ten-mile race and pay $100 to whoever beats them; put money and prizes in balloons for a balloon drop, go mountain biking, hiking, quail hunting, or sing karaoke; never miss a chance to go on a family vacation, shark fishing; coach softball; cook pancakes for the team; and just find time to sit in the backyard and read.

 

Every one of the examples above came from leaders that I have also observed make tough decisions; close sales, expand to a new territory, fire a person, build a budget; pass out bonus checks, or complete a project in the pouring rain. They would not allow the stress of day-to-day business demands keep them from the enjoying all life has to offer and they use fun to overcome the stress that could rob them of life.

Something We All Have in Common 

There is one common thing each of us is born with, and it starts to surface at a very young age: the ability to make a choice. A child can choose to listen or not listen to their parent, an adult to exercise or not, all the way to those choices that will enable them to be fulfilled in their later years. Every person in control of their senses and fortunate enough to have good health possesses the opportunity to make choices. Wouldn't it make sense that when we recognize something we are doing is not allowing us to reach our potential as a leader that we would also recognize a different choice needs to be made? If we are not getting better at our work as a leader, then a choice to be more coachable would help. If we know we can improve as leaders by making the simple choices to take action or feel worthy of happiness or to keep moving forward through the low times knowing better days can follow, then we should make those choices and enjoy the benefits that follow. Finally, if we catch ourselves saying there is never enough time for a vacation, or walk in the park then choosing to take a vacation or walk may be the only solution to find the time to do so in the future.

 

Possibly the one acceptable answer to the "Born or Made Debate" is that leaders are neither born nor made but each evolves by recognizing the choices they must make in order to become a great leader.

 

- Jim Paluch

 

 

KICK OFF THE NEW YEAR WITH US!
January 13, 2014

3:00 p.m. EST

Webinar: CARE Leadership

Jim Paluch and Peter Van Stralen, author of C.A.R.E. Leadership, will discuss how the 10 van Stralen brothers built The Grounds Guys®, their landscape management company, from the ground up. By establishing a "culture of C.A.R.E." as the centerpiece of the organization, the brothers have experienced tremendous success, working together in unity and growing their concept into a multinational franchise brand. Eight simple but powerful leadership principles derived from the code of C.A.R.E. will enable your company to thrive, too. Peter Van Stralen says that it's all about the culture from "Create a Remarkable Experience" to "Be Humble" to "Listen Well and Communicate with Respect." This culture gets leaders one step closer to creating a team that is competent, fun, fulfilled, engaged, and committed to giving customers the best service possible. 
 
Date: Monday, January 13, 2014
Time: 3:00 p.m. EST
 

 
Come Alive Outside
Tip of the Day
 
Because of advances in camera technology, wildwatching may become even more popular in the future. Nature photography is a terrific way for a child or family to reconnect with nature. Digital cameras dramatically reduce the cost of experimental photos of birds, worms, beetles, and small feet. 
        
Tip from "FIVE GREAT WAYS TO NURTURE YOUR INNER HUNTER & GATHERER:
Wildcrafting, Wildwatching, Birding, Cloudspotting, Stargazing
 Click here for a list of past Tips.
 

 
Quotes

 

"Leadership: the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it." 
- Dwight D. Eisenhower

 

"Most coaches study the films when they lose. I study them when we win--to see if I can figure out what I did right." 
- Paul "Bear" Bryant

 

"The world cares very little about what a man or woman knows; it is what the man or woman is able to do that counts." 
- Booker T. Washington

 

"Anyone who stops is old, whether at 20 or 80. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young." 
- Henry Ford

 

"Don't measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability." 

- John Wooden

 

 

 
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