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I AM GOING TO QUIT! That's it. I can't take it any
longer. I am getting out of this situation. I'm tired
of the struggle and the meaningless effort that I'm
putting in into this. Does it really matter
if I complete this or not? This is the last one. After
this, I QUIT!
Does that sound familiar? It could be the voice going
on inside the head of any individual on a bad day at
work, perceived bad relationship, or project not going
as expected! It could also be the wrong voice around
mile 18 of a marathon with 8.2 miles left to go.
I am now walking through the airports, not quite as
fast as I normally would, on the way back from the
Salt Lake City Marathon, where a group of great
friends and I spent an early Saturday morning
battling those voices, high altitude, and 26.2 miles of
beautiful winding roads toward a great victory. The
victory was not over the Kenyans who finished a
couple hours before but over ourselves and the
challenge to accomplish a goal we set out to
achieve.
In each of those miles I realized the similarities
between that race Saturday morning and the race
each of us runs every day. The following are 26.2
lessons that will help me in the race every day.
- Jim Paluch
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26.2 Lessons to Live By |
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All the nervousness and uncertainty combined to
create an energy for me on the streets of Salt Lake
City. I had already accomplished one leg of the
marathon. I was there and I would run.
LESSON: Give yourself
opportunities to excel.
- With the help of the Internet, I had a good
idea of what the marathon course would be like. It
even had a virtual tour of all 26.2 miles like you were
racing in a car from start to finish. With a great
description and printed maps, I knew what was
ahead.
LESSON: Odds of
success increase as you study the course and
prepare for its challenges.
The day before the race, I went for a short
run and found the location of the finish line. There
were many times throughout the race that I pictured
that final stretch of road and visualized crossing the
finish line.
LESSON: Begin with a
clear picture of the goal.
As I prepared to leave my hotel room, I
hesitated and picked up my cell phone. It wouldn't
hurt to have it along. Fortunately, I realized that
packing a cell phone only provided a way out. The
phone stayed behind.
LESSON: Recognize and
resist the easy way out.
Gathering at the starting line with thousands
of others is an amazing experience. As I looked
around at all of those people, I knew each had a
reason to be there and each reason was just as
important as the next.
LESSON: Appreciate the
individuals that surround you.
I was impressed with a smile and look I
received from a friend about to start her first
marathon. The look was of sheer determination and
the sweet smile said, "See ya later, Jim," as she
pulled away from the starting line. I know I will
remember and draw from that moment many times in
the future.
LESSON: Be inspired by the
determination of others.
All of us mentioned after the race how much
we loved "high fivin'" the little children's hands along
the way. We were energized by their excitement.
LESSON: Learn from the
enthusiasm of youth.
At every mile marker, there was a colorful
banner that you could spot from quite a distance.
Those banners became welcome friends showing
accomplishment, progress and proof that I was
getting a little closer to my ultimate goal.
LESSON: Measuring growth
and accomplishment keeps you moving toward the
goal.
The mountains in Salt Lake City are
magnificent and the beauty literally surrounds you. I
had asked several locals before the race if they still
notice the mountains and most said they take them
for granted. I knew the awesome view would inspire
my run.
LESSON: Let nature add
dimension to your life and enjoy the beauty that's
around you.
Pain is part of running a marathon and so is
controlling your thoughts. Sometimes the two cross
and you wonder, "Is that pain in my leg or in my
head?" Wherever it is, you have to get past it by
taking one step at a time.
LESSON: The mind and the
body are amazing partners that work best
together.
It felt so good to say "thanks" to all the older
people standing in their driveways or on the street
corners sharing fresh orange slices, homemade
cookies, or cheers of encouragement. The
bystanders are a huge part of a marathon and can
be the difference between finishing or giving up.
LESSON: Learn to say
thanks to those that encourage you in
life.
Whenever I considered quitting, I pictured
the excitement and tears and screams of my
wonderful wife as I crossed the finish line.
LESSON: Vividly see the
successful accomplishment of your
goal.
I carefully planned what I would carry with
me during the race. Taking care of myself at the
right times with nourishment and first aid prevented
injury and loss of strength.
LESSON: Be
prepared.
I truly had not properly trained for this
marathon and had to adjust my mental strategy
along the way. If I wanted to finish, I had to adjust
and walk at different times.
LESSON: We all have
situations in life that we aren't prepared for and
survival means an adjustment in
strategy.
One of our friends trained for a half marathon.
She reached her goal and left with the confidence
and determination to try the full 26.2 next time.
LESSON: Build on your
successes.
This same lady said after the successful half
race that she felt like she had sold herself short in
her original goal. Whether she did or not, she learned
a great lesson for the future.
LESSON: Don't sell yourself
short.
There's an interesting thing that happens
when someone that looks completely out of shape or
20 pounds overweight or 15 years older than you
passes and plods ahead to finish before you can
even see the finish line. It can stop you in your
tracks or motivate you to go further--a choice.
LESSON: Learn from and be
inspired by others' success.
I don't want to mislead anyone. It took me
5-1/2 hours to complete this marathon. That's 3-1/2
hours more than those that competed to
win. When you spend that much time beating the
pavement with nothing but your own thoughts, you
had better learn to enjoy your own company.
LESSON: Enjoy your own
company
At about the 18th mile, when I thought I
could go no further, I heard my old buddy Nick
coaching me in the Boston Marathon 6 years ago. It
wasn't Boston, but he was there with me
saying, "Come on, Jim, you can run 8.2 miles. You've
done it before."
LESSON: Remember the
wisdom of your mentors.
I'm sure I would have never been running in
Salt Lake City this past weekend without the
prompting, planning and follow through of my friends.
Not only did they get me there, we had a blast
together.
LESSON: We dare more
and accomplish more as a team.
If you know many runners, you'll notice that
we get pretty attached to our running watches.
Throughout training, it helps you measure your
success and, in a marathon, it keeps you on track.
Measuring each mile against a standard makes a
game out of it for me.
LESSON: Keeping score
keeps it fun.
I've realized that many people on the
sidelines were as inspired by the experience as those
in the race. They actually were seeing things and
learning things that the runners might have taken for
granted (unless they wrote a newsletter right
afterward).
LESSON: Whether you are
the participant or a keen observer, be sure you are
where you want to be and making the most of the
experience.
Although physical training is critical to what
your body will experience in a marathon, I think the
key factor to making it across the finish line is mental
discipline.
LESSON: Your thoughts
can be your worst enemy or greatest ally in
everything you do.
26.2 miles is quite a sobering number no
matter who you are or what your experiences might
be. A 1-mile race 26 times, however, is much more
doable and that's how I decided to approach it.
LESSON: Break a big
project into doable pieces.
Can you believe that at about the 17-mile
point I was actually thinking about what I would do
differently in the next marathon!
LESSON: Know you'll run
again, sell again, love again, try again!
The first words out of my mouth when I was
greeted by my wife were, "That was fun!" It wasn't
just the finish with its cheers and recognition. It was
the entire mental and physical journey that all came
together as an awesome experience.
LESSON: When you reach
a goal, all the painful, challenging, exhilarating,
frustrating, exciting steps along the way fall into one
satisfying memory.
What if a blister, a leg cramp, a lousy thought
or a handy cell phone had ended my marathon before
the predetermined finish? I surely would have learned
a different batch of lessons and missed the
satisfaction of making it across that line.
LESSON: DON'T QUIT!
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Quotes |
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"Running is the greatest metaphor for life, because
you get out of it what you put into it."
- Oprah Winfrey
"Bid me run and I will strive with things
impossible."
- William Shakespeare
"A race is a work of art that people can look at and
be affected in as many ways as they're capable of
understanding."
- Steve Prefontaine
"It is horrible, yet fascinating, this struggle between
a set purpose and an utterly exhausted frame."
- Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
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